Here we are in the middle of a political storm, a social storm, and well the weather’s not much good either ( At least in the UK). What astounds me is 52% of this country voted out, they won and yet this country is STILL not happy. While I voted in i’ve accepted the fact we didn’t win that vote. Time to move on, no use crying over spilt milk and all that…As a coach I see this a lot ” it’s never good enough”. Don’t get me wrong I cross my own suffering ( I’ve been there) and I’m responsible for my own happiness ( I’m there now even though life hasn’t been easy) , though it both amazes and saddens me how as a humanity we’re never quite there…it’s never quite enough to settle into just BEING and letting it lie, or Let Go and Let GOD.
Heres something I learnt a long time ago: Life is in a constant flux, a constant ebb, flow, and change and if you try to avoid that the only thing you will experience is suffering. Something important to think about- If this current uncertainty is affecting you so much right now, you are at the effect of your experience and not LIVING your experience. Basically you’re allowing someone to pull your strings instead of you pulling your own ( As the late Wayne Dyer so eloquently put it). Use uncertainty and insecurity as your friend instead of seeing it as your foe-Use it to peel back the layers and MEET yourSELF. Your TRUE ESSENCE cannot be uncreated-it cannot be changed, or modified in any way. Use this time to cultivate a deeper connection to yourself, don’t allow life to use you, but use it to embrace a deeper sense of meaning, and embrace uncertainty along with it. And , while you’re at it Let Go and Let GOD. Love All Ways xo